الأول منه وهو أن تضطجع المرأة على جنبها الأيسر وتمد رجليها مداً مستوياً وتدير وجهها إلى الوراء ويأتيها الرجل من خلفها ويلف ساقه على فخذها ويمسك صدرها بيده وتحت بطنها بيده الأخرى ويسمى دق الطحال.
الثاني منه وهو أن تضطجع المرأة على جنبها الأيسر وتمد رجليها مداً مستوياً وتدير وجهها إلى الوراء ثم تجعل فخذيه بين فخذيها ويحكه بين شفريها ثم يولجه فيها ويسمى جماع الحكماء.
الثالث منه أن تضطجع المرأة وتدير وجهها ويضطجع الرجل خلفها ورجله الواحدة مثنيه خلفه والأخرى بين فخذيها واسمه السقلاني.
الرابع منه أن تضطجع المرأة على الجنب الأيمن وتمد رجليها مداً جيداً والرجل كذلك على إحدى فخذيه والأخرى بين فخذيها ويبل قضيبه ويحكه حكاً جيداً إلى أن يحس بالإنزال فيطبقه قوياً واسمه جماع المسلطين.
الخامس منه أن تضطجع المرأة على جنبها الأيمن وتمد رجليها والرجل كذلك على جنبه الأيمن ويخالف بين رجليها ثم يولجه فيها فإذا قارب الإنزال يخرجه ويتركه على فخذها ثم يولجه فيها واسمه المقترح.
السادس منه أن تضطجع المرأة على جنبها الأيمن والرجل يتكئ على جنبه الأيسر وتضع عجزها في حجر الرجل وتجعل رجلها الشمال من فوق ورجلها اليمين من تحت إبطها الأيسر ويولجه إيلاجاً عنيفاً واسمه جماع الوداع.
السابع منه أن تضطجع المرأة على جنبها الأيسر وتمد رجلها وتدير رأسها إلى الوراء ويضطجع الرجل خلفها وتلف ساقها على فخذها الأعلى ويمسك صدرها بيده والأخرى تحت بطنها واسمه جماع الأرمن.
الثامن منه أن تضطجع المرأة على جنبها الأيمن وهو على جنبه الأيمن وساقها بين ساقيه واسمه جماع الهين.
التاسع منه أن تضطجع المرأة على جنبها الأيسر وهو على جنبه الأيمن وساقها بين ساقيه وتعاطيه الشهيق والغنج إلى أن يفرغا منه واسمه جماع الكلاب.
العاشر منه أن تضطجع المرأة على جنبها الأيسر وتمد رجليها وتدور برأسها إلى الخلف ويضطجع الرجل خلفها ويلف ساقه على ساقها واسمه جماع الولع.

What better position for two lovers in love? This is the position where you can truly show your lover how much you adore them, with slow romantic sex in a position that lends itself to all kinds of exciting variations. You can take it slowly, holding each other closely, or you can lean back and stare into each other's eyes; you can take it fast and furiously, with powerful sex in a position that still lets you look at each other; you can have the female partner lift her leg so you get a clear view of penetration; and you can turn around in this position so that the man's chest nestles into the woman's back, and you then have a combination of snuggling sex and rear entry sex!

The easiest way to get into the side by side sex position is to start in the missionary or man on top position and then roll over onto one side. That's how the couple in the photo above moved into the side by side position. So, rather than staying in the same position throughout a session of sex, why not start in the man on top position and then roll onto your sides? This way you can look at each other, see his balls, and him entering her, and see her vulva and labia, breasts and buttocks. Sex in this position can be very exciting and comes highly recommended for everyone - not just large people or pregnant couples!

Perhaps people don't try this sex position because they think it's complicated. And yet the fact is, it's really easy! You start in the man on top position with the woman raising her legs towards her chest so that her knees are bent. Ideally, her thighs should be round about the same place as the man's waist. He then thrusts his cock deeply into her and holds it there as you roll over - decide which way you're going beforehand, though! You'd think the woman's legs might be crushed, but actually this position is really comfortable if she as them high enough before you roll over. Then make any minor adjustments until you feel really comfortable together.

The first variation you can try is leaning back away from each other so you can get a good view of each other. You can clearly see penetration - very exciting! But even more arousing is the variation where the woman lifts her leg and holds it there - now you can really see all the details of each other's genitals; even better, you can see him withdrawing and entering her, his shaft covered in her vaginal juices, and you can play with her clitoris and labia and his balls.

Another variation on the theme is to use this position for vigorous sex when you want to maintain a sense of connection or try some spiritual work during sex. You can make love, pause, talk, relax, carry on, look at each other, send energy to each other, relax, and carry on again. Ringing the changes like this makes sex much more interesting and ultimately makes your orgasms much more powerful. (The longer the build-up, the better the climax.)

In addition, of course, it's great for the end of the day lovemaking when you don't feel very energetic but you'd still like to have some connection with your lover.

Even better, there's little danger of the man slipping out in this position, even if he is a bit on the small side; and because the position puts less pressure on the penis, a man who's a bit prone to coming too quickly may find that he can last a lot longer in side by side sex - especially if you slow down or stop during your lovemaking (without him withdrawing), and start again when he's less excited.

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